"Great way to make young women feel safe at a show when the rest of the fucking world is hostile towards them already"
Joyce Manor
The frontman of Californian punk-rock quartet Joyce Manor, Barry Johnson, has defended his decision to publicly call out a stage-diver at a show being held at Jacksonville's 1904 Music Hall at the weekend.
"Seeing a lot of people online saying I'm a 'pussy' and a 'bitch' for calling out that grown man trying to crush a group of teenage girls," Johnson wrote on Twitter early this morning (AEST).
"I love a crazy show as much as any1 else I just don't think any1 should have to go 2 the hospital cuz of sum idiot w a tank top & Moz hair," he added.
Seeing a lot of people online saying I'm a "pussy" and a "bitch" for calling out that grown man trying to crush a group of teenage girls.
— Joyce Manor (@JoyceManor) September 23, 2014
So far on this tour I've seen a girl with a black eye, a girl with a concussion, and a girl with a dislocated knee.. .
— Joyce Manor (@JoyceManor) September 23, 2014
..Great way to make young women feel safe at a show when the rest of the fucking world is hostile towards them already.
— Joyce Manor (@JoyceManor) September 23, 2014
I love a crazy show as much as any1 else I just don't think any1 should have to go 2 the hospital cuz of sum idiot w a tank top & Moz hair
— Joyce Manor (@JoyceManor) September 23, 2014
Guys tweeting at me like "what about guys who get hurt at shows?" This is u pic.twitter.com/wLTi4fBuis
— Joyce Manor (@JoyceManor) September 23, 2014
The original incident, which you can see in the video below from the 1:00-1:45 mark (it's footage of the entire gig, hence the specificity), occurred when a member of the audience — the "grown man" in question — got up on stage during one of Joyce Manor's songs and proceeded to stage-dive onto a group of young fans, overwhelmingly described since as being no older than high-school-age. Johnson, noticing the commotion, abruptly stopped the song and pulled the diver up on stage.
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"Hey man, how tall are you?" Johnson asked the stage-diver. "How much do you weigh, if you don't mind me asking?"
Upon being told he weighs about 190 pounds (86 kilograms), Johnson turns to a girl in the audience: "How much do you weigh? Sorry, that's really rude. You're much smaller than him, right? It's completely unacceptable for him to impose himself on top of you. Completely unacceptable, right? Under no circumstances is that acceptable? OK."
In fairness, he ended rather politely, turning to the stage diver and saying, "Please don't do that again," before shaking his hand and letting him off the stage.
Despite the emergence online of a vocal minority of fans who maintain the frontman was in the wrong and in contravention of the "punk rock spirit" (whatever that is supposed to mean), a great number of supporters, peers and contemporaries from Joyce Manor's circle have voiced their approval for Johnson's decision to halt the show.
@JoyceManor preach it
— Balance & Composure (@balanceandcomp) September 24, 2014
Thank you @JoyceManor for getting it right! I almost died in a pit I didnt wanna b in as a teen at Warped & got made fun of for being a girl
— Candy Hearts ☕ (@CandyHeartsBand) September 23, 2014
@JoyceManor has this one right folks. Going to shows should be a way to connect with others and have fun. Not to make people feel unsafe....
— The Sidekicks (@SidekicksOhio) September 23, 2014
It's corny to stagedive at a @JoyceManor show - if you wanna be a hc kid come to an hc show and do what you want - no dis to JM - feel them
— Code Orange (@codeorangekids) September 23, 2014
@JoyceManor @ThaiHoak front of the stage got kicked in the face the first song so hard I was crying because they jumped feet first ppl suck
— ✧s∀ltys∀t∀n✧ (@spatulaspayla) September 23, 2014
@JoyceManor this really bums me out because punk shows are where i go to feel welcome when men in the real world make me feel really unsafe
— pilot?????? (@pilotbacon) September 23, 2014
But perhaps the greatest, most rational response — and a fitting punctuation mark on the controversy — came from one Brian McKenna, who expressed a sentiment even the band can't argue with (presumably, given their retweet):
@JoyceManor writes mid tempo pop songs. Stop headwalking at their shows. Obviously.
— Brian McKenna (@brian_mckennaa) September 23, 2014
Well said, Brian. Well said.